It might be hard to talk to your partner about getting tested for sexually transmitted diseases (STDs), but it’s important. Chances are your partner will be glad you brought it up.
Talk before you have sex.
- “Getting tested before we have sex will help protect both of us.”
- “Why take a chance when we can know for sure?”
- “I was tested for STDs, including HIV. Are you willing to do the same?”
There are other things you may want to talk to your partner about, such as:
- Sexual history – the number of partners you’ve had and what kind of protection you used
- Risk factors – like whether you’ve had sex without a condom or used drugs with needles
Share the facts.
- “Many people who have an STD don’t know it.”
- “STDs that are found and treated early are less likely to cause long-term problems.”
- “Getting tested is easier than ever before. Doctors can test urine (pee) for chlamydia and gonorrhea, some of the most common STDs. And some HIV tests can give results in 20 minutes. You may not even have to give blood.”
Show that you care.
- “I really care about you. I want to make sure we are both healthy.”
- “Let’s get tested together.”
Agree to stay safe.
- “If we’re going to have sex, using condoms is the best way to protect us from STDs. Let’s use condoms every time we have sex.”
- “We can enjoy sex more if we know it’s safe.”